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Safety Center
ABBA is reconciliation-first, but never danger-blind. Learn the covenant standards, support boundaries, and how to get help.
Trust & Safety
Reconciliation-first, never danger-blind
Love requires truth. Peace requires safety. Forgiveness does not erase responsibility.
ABBA is reconciliation-first, but never danger-blind. If there is abuse, coercion, threats, stalking, sexual pressure, or danger, seek immediate help from trusted people, church leadership, qualified professionals, local authorities, or emergency help where appropriate.
Safety boundaries
ABBA cannot guarantee safety or replace emergency help.
Reports are private to reporters and the safety team. Reported users do not receive report details.
Children and vulnerable people are protected before growth, repair, or reconciliation goals.
Forgiveness is not forced trust
Forgiveness does not erase truth, remove accountability, or require immediate private reconciliation. Trust is rebuilt through repentance, repair, changed behavior, and wise boundaries.
Faith language must not coerce
No one may use God, Scripture, purity, forgiveness, or authority language to pressure marriage, silence a report, bypass boundaries, or demand restored trust.
Guided communication has limits
Messages may be paused or blocked when they contain threats, coercion, child-safety concerns, sexual pressure, or severe harassment. Joshua can help rewrite lower-risk wording.
Joshua has safety limits
Joshua supports reflection and communication, but Joshua is not God, a pastor, a therapist, a lawyer, a doctor, or emergency help.
Private family spaces
Family Rooms, parent-child check-ins, journals, reports, Peace Table safety plans, and child records are not public feeds and must remain scoped to authorized people.
Adult-only courtship
Matching, courtship events, date plans, Discernment Rooms, and approved-match messaging require adult eligibility. Managed child profiles cannot enter those flows.
Community Covenant
Every member is expected to live by truth in love.
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Seek love in truth.
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Honor others as image-bearers of God.
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Do not deceive, manipulate, exploit, harass, threaten, or pressure others.
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Respect boundaries.
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Do not use faith language to control or coerce.
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Do not request money from matches.
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Do not sexualize, exploit, or objectify others.
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Protect children and the vulnerable.
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Repentance requires changed behavior.
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Forgiveness does not erase accountability.
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Reconciliation must be safe and truthful.
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Dating and courtship spaces are adult-only.
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Family spaces are private and parent/guardian-managed.
Safety tools
ABBA provides Safety Center guidance, report concern flows, blocking, pause matching, hide profile, support requests, moderation queues, and child-safety escalation foundations.
Reports are private to the reporter and safety/admin team where policy allows. ABBA does not notify the reported person simply because a report was submitted.
Users can report harassment, threats, scams, coercion, faith misuse, child safety concerns, abuse, boundary violations, fake profiles, and other concerns.
Emergency and abuse boundaries
ABBA is not emergency response. If there is immediate danger, contact local emergency services or trusted people who can help now.
If there is abuse, coercion, threats, stalking, sexual pressure, grooming, child exploitation, or danger, do not rely on Peace Table or Joshua alone.
Forgiveness does not erase accountability. Reconciliation requires safety, truth, repentance, repair, wise boundaries, and changed behavior.
Moderation and limitations
ABBA may review reports, restrict accounts, hide content, pause matching, suspend users, ban users, or preserve records where safety/legal reasons require it.
ABBA cannot promise every report will be resolved within a specific time until staffing and escalation policies are finalized.
No retaliation against reporters is permitted.
Dating, family, scams, and faith misuse
Courtship features are adult-only. Children are not public dating users.
Do not request money from matches, pressure someone to meet, bypass boundaries, or use faith language to control or coerce.
Family and parent-child tools are for listening, encouragement, repair, and love. They must not be used to silence harm or expose children.
Joshua limitations and support
Joshua may offer safety-oriented guidance but is not emergency help, a therapist, a lawyer, a doctor, a pastor, or divine authority.
For support, use http://localhost:3000/support. For abuse concerns, use http://localhost:3000/report-abuse or abuse@example.com.